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  • NuggetBrainNuggetBrain member
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    I asked her WTF her deal was and she was all "Oh, well I figured you took everything you wanted when you moved out, and didn't want the rest of it since it's still here almost 2 years later."  REALLY?  You figured I wouldn't want a box of stuff I've kept for almost ten years?  REALLY MOM???  AND claimed that I never told her that I wanted a heads up when she planned on clearing stuff out.  Then she got all huffy when I got even more pissed at finding out my grandma had gone through my stuff with her (and I don't blame GN, because she thought it was all good).  She told me about the shaky thing like I was supposed to laugh about it or something. WHY WOULD I FIND THAT AMUSING. 
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  • CellesCelles member
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    My boss just came in to ask me about a journal entry I made, and I completely and utterly lost the ability to speak.  I told him I wasn't feeling well and asked if I could have a minute to review the entry and get back to him -- except instead of saying it like that, which seems reasonable, I grabbed around my desk for paper, tried twice to make words, failed miserably, and then concentrated on looking as pathetic as possible.  I'm pretty sure I also informed him that appears to the contrary notwithstanding, I am competent.

    I am so going to get fired.

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  • J&K10910J&K10910 member
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    [QUOTE]I flame people in the judgment thread yesterday (Mallory? maybe?) who were complaining about size six people who don't like their body. There was also a hell of a lot of backpeddling around the issue and it just annoyed me.
    Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

    I already made my feelings on this known, but I'll  ditto this. 

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  • ohwhynotohwhynot member
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    A little grievance against marissaclaire for her "zomg!  girls are getting pregnant JUST TO BE on Teen Mom!"   That thread seemed kind of ridiculous.  On a general note, marissaclaire seems to have a bit of a  hard time backing down when she's called out on something. 
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  • Lenore2010Lenore2010 member
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    [QUOTE]J&K - <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_another-christmas-post" rel="nofollow">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_another-christmas-post</a>
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    <div>Wow, that's hella nasty.</div>
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  • shaydeniseshaydenise
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    [QUOTE]I flame people in the judgment thread yesterday (Mallory? maybe?) who were complaining about size six people who don't like their body. There was also a hell of a lot of backpeddling around the issue and it just annoyed me.
    Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

    I agree completely with this.  I have always had issues with my weight ( both physical and emotional) and just because I've lost weight now doesn't mean I still don't have those issues.  They don't just go away.
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  • Blueyed228Blueyed228 member
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    [QUOTE]A little grievance against marissaclaire for her "zomg!  girls are getting pregnant JUST TO BE on Teen Mom!"   That thread seemed kind of ridiculous.  On a general note, marissaclaire seems to have a bit of a  hard time backing down when she's called out on something. 
    Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

    I have said before that I dont get her yet.  I cant pinpoint why, but a lot of what she have to say makes me go "Huh?"  I dont know if its trying to hard or that I just have not gotten her sense of humor yet. 
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  • Lenore2010Lenore2010 member
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    [QUOTE]I flame people in the judgment thread yesterday (Mallory? maybe?) who were complaining about size six people who don't like their body. There was also a hell of a lot of backpeddling around the issue and it just annoyed me.
    Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>Agreed 122%. If you have issues with your body, be you a size 0 or 26 I have nothing but support and understanding for you. </div>
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  • eastunder1eastunder1
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    I flame everyone freaking out about the tampon thing.  I went to that thread expecting somehting with dead kittens or the tears of murdered babies the way everyone was "OMG!!"ing it.  And.....tampon jokes.   Tasteless sure, but come on.   Its. a. joke. 

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  • salt78salt78 member
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    edited December 2010
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    [QUOTE]I flame people in the judgment thread yesterday (Mallory? maybe?) who were complaining about size six people who don't like their body. There was also a hell of a lot of backpeddling around the issue and it just annoyed me.
    Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

    <div>I didn't even read the thread and that pisses me off. The complaining part, not the fact that I didn't read the thread part.</div>
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  • J&K10910J&K10910 member
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    [QUOTE]A little grievance against marissaclaire for her "zomg!  girls are getting pregnant JUST TO BE on Teen Mom!"   That thread seemed kind of ridiculous.  On a general note, marissaclaire seems to have a bit of a  hard time backing down when she's called out on something. 
    Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

    I've flamed her in the past for making rather ridiculous statements without evidence as well.   

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    I don't know who melissaclaire is.
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  • MeaghanandMichaelMeaghanandMichael
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    I actually didn't find the tampon thing as gross as I just found it over the top creeptastic. Too much effort.
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  • J&K10910J&K10910 member
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    East!  Nebb and I were just talking about you the other day.

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  • betrothed123betrothed123
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    [QUOTE]I flame everyone freaking out about the tampon thing.  I went to that thread expecting somehting with dead kittens or the tears of murdered babies the way everyone was "OMG!!"ing it.  And.....tampon jokes.   Tasteless sure, but come on.   Its. a. joke. 
    Posted by eastunder1[/QUOTE]
    Eye to eye, East. 

    Oh and Hi.  How are you doing?
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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  • ohwhynotohwhynot member
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    Agree to disagree, I guess.  I found it really gross and a really stupid idea for a white elephant thing.  Like, someone opening a box of what looked like used tampons would suck all the fun out of the room immediately. 

    Esp. in a room full of relatives on Christmas, people would just be grossed out and wonder who the hell would think that was funny.
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  • AllAboutTheBenjaminAllAboutTheBenjamin member
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    edited December 2010
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    [QUOTE]I actually didn't find the tampon thing as gross as I just found it over the top creeptastic. Too much effort.
    Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

    This is the vibe I got from that post.  Like, exactly.  The artsy fartsy strange painting that had "tampon" in the title was funny.  Suggesting that I bring fake blood-soaked tampons as a white elephant gift is just, well, strange. 

    My in-laws have a sick sense of humor but I'm not really sure how well that one would go over.
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  • AnysunriseAnysunrise member
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    [QUOTE]I flame everyone freaking out about the tampon thing.  I went to that thread expecting somehting with dead kittens or the tears of murdered babies the way everyone was "OMG!!"ing it.  And.....tampon jokes.   Tasteless sure, but come on.   Its. a. joke. 
    Posted by eastunder1[/QUOTE]

    Yeah, that was way overhyped.
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  • betrothed123betrothed123
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    [QUOTE]Agree to disagree, I guess.  I found it really gross and a really stupid idea for a white elephant thing.  Like, someone opening a box of what looked like used tampons would suck all the fun out of the room immediately.  Esp. in a room full of relatives on Christmas, people would just be grossed out and wonder who the hell would think that was funny.
    Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]
    Works for me.  I guess I just didn't read either of her suggestions as serious suggestions.  I read her posts as jokes.
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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  • Lenore2010Lenore2010 member
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    [QUOTE]I flame everyone freaking out about the tampon thing.  I went to that thread expecting somehting with dead kittens or the tears of murdered babies the way everyone was "OMG!!"ing it.  And.....tampon jokes.   Tasteless sure, but come on.   Its. a. joke. 
    Posted by eastunder1[/QUOTE]

    <div>I think for me it was the bio fluids aspect of the joke that icked me out-kind of like shiit or vomit jokes.  Not to say it was WRONG< WRONG< WRONG of her post it. I am sure we have all heard worse in our lives.</div>
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  • ohwhynotohwhynot member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: You have grievances. : Works for me.  I guess I just didn't read either of her suggestions as serious suggestions. <strong> I read her posts as jokes.
    </strong>Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]

    Fair enough.  I didn't, but then I've been rightfully accused of being humor deficient.   I AM AS GOD MADE ME!
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  • Lenore2010Lenore2010 member
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    Oh, and I flame AATB for not posted more wedding pics. Come on! We need to see more! :)
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  • J&K10910J&K10910 member
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    I'm not really sure what to make of 1ofthesedays in general. 

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  • marissa_clairemarissa_claire member
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    I'm not really going to say anything in my defense.  I know most of you don't get me and I don't get a lot of you... .so I guess that's it?  I'm probably not going anywhere, though, so maybe time will tell.
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  • betrothed123betrothed123
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: You have grievances. : Fair enough.  I didn't, but then <strong>I've been rightfully accused of being humor deficient.</strong>   I AM AS GOD MADE ME!
    Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]
    I hope you don't think I'm accusing you of this.  I know you have a sense of humor.  We don't all have to find the same things funny.
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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    [QUOTE]Oh, and I flame AATB for not posted more wedding pics. Come on! We need to see more! :)
    Posted by Lenore2010[/QUOTE]


    For real?  Well in that case I have to file a grievance with my professional photographer.  I have a feeling I won't be getting photos back for a long time, because he's a persnickity old curmudgeon.

    I have plans to make a bio soon though :)
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    [QUOTE]I'm not really going to say anything in my defense.  I know most of you don't get me and I don't get a lot of you... .so I guess that's it?  I'm probably not going anywhere, though, so maybe time will tell.
    Posted by marissa_claire[/QUOTE]

    I dont think anyone was saying "GO AWAY!"

    Just that I dont get you yet.  Maybe because I was gone for a few weeks?  Or maybe not. 

    Not getting you does not = not liking you
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    [QUOTE]I'm not really going to say anything in my defense.  I know most of you don't get me and I don't get a lot of you... .so I guess that's it?  I'm probably not going anywhere, though, so maybe time will tell.
    Posted by marissa_claire[/QUOTE]

    Ok, I promise I'm not trying ot be a biitch, but what would make you want to stick around in a place where you don't "get" a lot of the posters and you feel like they don't get you either?  I'm curious.  There must be something you like...

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: You have grievances. : I hope you don't think I'm accusing you of this.  I know you have a sense of humor.  We don't all have to find the same things funny.
    Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]

    Oh gosh no, B.  Not at all, I was just acknowledging that maybe it was a joke that I didn't get.  Because sometimes I don't get jokes and other people are all like "Duh, it was a joke.  Dork." 
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  • marissa_clairemarissa_claire member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: You have grievances. : I dont think anyone was saying "GO AWAY!" Just that I dont get you yet.  Maybe because I was gone for a few weeks?  Or maybe not.  Not getting you does not = not liking you
    Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Nah, I know people don't passionately hate me.  I think it's probably just one of those things that we tell a lot of girls - because it's only text it's harder to figure out personalities and such.

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