My fiancee and I had originally decided on 4 bridesmaids (MOH included), 4 groomsmen (best man included), 2 flower girls, and 2 ring bearers. My mom is paying for the wedding and has the very traditional mindset that she is the one who should be planning and deciding most of aspects of the wedding. One day she told me she added another bridesmaid, another flowergirl, another ring bearer, and 3 junior bridesmaids. They have already been asked and have their dresses ordered. The church we are getting married in is on the smaller side and is one of the reasons my fiancee and I didn't really want a huge wedding party. I was just going to deal with it, but my fiancee is very upset and wants to only have the people we originally decided on. What do I do?