Alright, ladies. I could use your help with a silly little birthday questions. FI and I are getting married on March 30th, which means (because we have out-of-town people in our wedding party) that we have to have the rehearsal on March 29th. That is also, unfortunately, FI's birthday. I let him pick the rehearsal dinner and told him he could invite more friends to the dinner (which he thinks would be awkward since they aren't in the wedding party itself). I'm going to get him a present and definately make sure to get a cake brought out so everyone can celebrate his birthday too at the dinner. Any other suggestions on how I can make it nice for him?
On the flip side, we can only do a catering test in the evening two days coming up (and need to do one relatively soon). One of the days the caterer is available is my birthday. Is it totally hypocritical for me to be a little bummed that I'd be spending my birthday at a vendor appointment? It is likely going to be stressful trying to figure out what we do/don't like since FI and I have different taste in food (but then again a rehearsal for a wedding isn't a walk in the park even if it is followed by a nice dinner with family/close friends). Thoughts? Am I being stupid (I've always made a big deal out of birthdays for some reason).