I'm getting married in April in Florida, but both of us and our families are from Wisconsin.
We chose Florida because my mom's dad is from there and we knew he wouldn't be able to travel, so we took our wedding to him. It turns out that after we went though all the planning and trouble of having it there that he still doesn't want to come. I guess he and my mom are a lot alike.
Since we chose Florida, my mom has been trying to give me reasons why I DON'T want to get married in Florida. First it was the oil spill, then it was spring breakers, then it was weather, then it as who knows what. I finally had to tell her that the wedding was in Florida because it is what my fiance and I wanted, and if she had that much of a problem going there, that she didn't have to come.
She insisted she would be there, started a bunch of benevolent preaching that she wouldn't miss her daughter's wedding.
My sister got married a few years back in Charleston, which from where we live up north, is only a few hours longer of a drive (and she was planning to fly anyway, so really the time would have be negatable).
Well my mom was kind enough to inform me over the weekend that she just "can't" come to my wedding. We've been engaged for over a year now. I think part of it is that my dad and stepmom will be there, and she can't act like an adult for one day and deal with it. They had a bad divorce, but my mom is the one who wanted to get divorced, not my dad!
I guess I'm just trying not to be too upset, but it's rough since she's my mom,. Has anyone else had parental trouble like this?