I feel kind of obligated to go even though I went to her bridal shower and brought her a gift. Not to mention I have to get her a wedding gift too. She has helped me with my wedding a little. We met for coffee and she gave me lots of ideas and helped get me organized since I only started planning mine. And we went to a bridal expo thingy together more for me than her since her wedding is already planned. Anyways, for the bachelorette party they want to start at someone's house and have this activity that basically costs $50 per person and also a stripper so they said to bring 1 dollar bills for that. Then they want to go downtown and go drinking so money for drinks. I think this is a pretty expensive bachelorette party and that's the only thing holding me back.