Let me preface this by saying that I really hope I don't get any snarky responses on here. I am already going through a difficult time, and I am just looking for advice.
Long story short, my great-grandmother (mom's grandma) is 98 and very ill. She has been up and down with her health for a while, but in the last year, has been on the decline. Doctors say that she is likely not going to make it to/through the weekend.
I am grieving and coping the best way I can, but I also have to think about logistics, as this weekend my parents are hosting an engagement party for FI and I. We have lots of family and friends coming in from out of town - so I'm not sure what the etiquette is if my grandma passes before the party. Do I suggest to my parents that we re-schedule/cancel? Do we toast to her memory at the party if we still have it? Etc.
Again, I don't want to sound like I'm emotionless on this issue, because I am grieving, but I have to consider our plans and what we're going to do about it.