Today since we're at home on our day off, I thought FI and I could take a look at some color combos so he can be somewhat introduced to world of wedding decor and more importantly see if we could find something we both liked. Ugh.. that was so frustrating. FI and I are complete opposites and this applies to our tastes as well. His favorites are my least favorites and I think it goes both ways.
He loves black and red. I hate them. They're beautiful at other weddings, really don't get me wrong, but it's never been my style. His favorite flower is the rose. I'm sick of seeing roses. I like bright colors. He thinks I'm trying to make our wedding look like a "sweet 16". Which I'm totally not btw, I'm doing my best to be considerate of him and not make things too girly. But I think since he's gotten that idea stuck into his head, he's trying his hardest to "defend" himself and make the day as manly as possible.
Also FI is the type of person that doesn't envision things well. He prefers to see something he likes and create an exact replica. So far he's dead set on repeating the same decor we saw being set up when we went to visit our venue two weeks ago. Red, black and white. He says "You saw what it looked like set up and it was nice. Let's just copy it. Done deal. Why bother trying to get other ideas? This is pretty so let's do the same thing." Needless to say I'm very frustrated trying to convince him copying isn't very original.
Anyway the point of my vent is, I'm worried this is going to be difficult planning process.. us planning together. I think it's really cute to see weddings where both have contributed to the planning and thus created a nice wedding. I'm all for doing the same thing. It's just that when two people are so different, it gets kind of difficult at times. I'm hoping this won't be as bad as I think. Now I'll be dedicating my time to gathering examples of different options to show him. Maybe he'll see one I like too and want to copy it lol jk :-P
Thanks for letting vent girls! Hope you're all enjoying your Friday.