My husband and I are planning a reception to celebrate our marrige with our families since we got married in a small chapel in Texas the day he graduated basic training. I wanted to wait for a big day to have a wedding, but agreeded to do the small ceromony with only his parent and sister in attendence. Now we are planning our reception and we have run into the conflict of it being 'too much'. We are using the colors Plum and Peacock, and incorperating peacock feathers into the decor. I want it to be glitzy and closer to what you see in shows like my fair wedding for example. Is it to much to shoot for a wedding like that, especially since my parents are the ones helping to pay for so much?