We went and tried on dresses on yesterday and i noticed all of my bridesmaids and MOH have the same issue in the tummy area. The dress they all want is an empire waisted chiffon but i liked a more fitted dress so i was thinking i would get them shape wear to help the pleats in the front lie flat. I just don't want to insult them or make it apparent i noticed. They all are selfconscious but none of them wanted to admit why they liked the flowey looser-fitted dress.
EDIT: I just want to say I am so glad i posted in this thread it was my first time and I know that thought popped into my head to push MY agenda for the dress Iwanted. I had mentioned this to my Mother and her response was its YOUR wedding YOU are paying for the pictures. It still didn't feel right so i posted it here
I guess you don't know who I am and are not judging me as a person, but I was not intending to give it to them as the bridesmaid gift we have other nice things and i know that shapwear is no way to show you appreciation. I was just wanting an unbiased opinion on a thought that popped into my head.
I ended up finding a dress that was a perfect compromise. It was the same neckline i likes but a flowy jersey that we both love. I know it will be better than hating the dresses they are in so they are happy or them hating me because i was more concerned about what i wanted.