My wedding isn't for a quite a bit but my family has been talking about bridal showers. My problem is that my fiance' and I live with his grandmother and plan to live there for a few years after we are married so that he can finish up his masters degree. I told my family that I probably shouldn't have a shower because there isn't anything thqat we will need. Normally people tell you to to upgrade items that you already have, but the items in our house are his grandmothers and not ours. I don't see the point in having a shower and then having to store gifts for 3 years. Does anyone have any suggestions or should I just not have a shower or registry?