Well, I know this is a good thing and not a problem, but I could use suggestions.
My sister is my MOH. We're only a year and a half apart in age and we've been best friends our whole lives. She is so excited about the wedding, especially because she's never been in a wedding party before, let alone the MOH. She is super-excited about the role of MOH.
She's been asking me every time I see her, "When are we going to start doing some wedding planning? What do you want me to do? When do I get to help you with wedding stuff?" I think it is so sweet that she is so eager and excited, but I honestly can't think of anything, because I've really just been taking care of it all myself.
I just assumed that she would just get her dress, hold her bouquet, and walk down the aisle, that's it. I told her that, and she said, "No, I want to help you plan!" She did come with me to buy my dress and she's been looking at pictures of bridesmaid dresses, but I'm hard-pressed to think of anything else for her to do.
Usually, I like to just take charge and do things myself. I'm not a person who likes to ask others for help, plus we have a lot of stuff done already. I would feel bad asking her to do some of these tedious tasks anyway. But it is clear that she wants more of a role in this. What can I ask her to do so she feels like she helping?
