I kinda just need to vent. Everyone in my family keeps calling me a bridezilla, but I'm not doing anything controlling or accusing them of ruining my special day. I have had a history of being an angry, horomonal teen, but I mean haven't we all? Seriously come on, examples of situations: when setting a date, I ask my brother if he could give my an estimate of when he is coming home from deployment, he called me bridezilla. When I picked a colors for each area of the wedding party to wear- I have a very close knit family, and they are my bridal party, which im doing in monochromatic, a shade for each generation-, multiple peopl have complained about the color and call me a bridezilla for forcing them to wear a color they don't like. My mom called me bridezilla because my fmil decided to wear the same color as my side. I think my brother called me a bridezilla because i asked him to wear a tux and bowtie instead of his armani suit. I think im maintaining composure with all this along with the fact that my family is very concerned that if they allow me to do what I want with the wedding, it all there friends are going ostracise them from the community. Im a softspoken person, and have been doing my best to maintain my angry side and not lash out at them. How do I deal with these divas/familyzillas? and how do I get them to stop calling me a Bridezilla and realize that no one cares what they wear, or that I'm not like all their friends daughters?