Okay confess, how many of you had a breakdown crying fit from stressing over wedding plans?
Well I did just this week. My FI is just starting out in his own business so he's swamped. I'm learning a new job that I hate, but it pays the bills. I have a project due next week for school. None of my BMs ordered their dresses and today is the deadline. We've been engaged for over a year but the planning is down to the details time and everyone wants to know everything all the time.
On Tues I emailed my sister to apologize for giving her attitude over something I later realized I screwed up, not her. I told her I'm really stressed out because I feel like its all on me to get all this done and I'm not handling it well so I was sorry for giving her attitude lately. She wrote back Wed with a long list of her stresses which I didn't find very "supportive" at the time so I lashed out then she lashed back. I cancelled the wedding she quit being MOH. On top of it all I was getting reamed out at work all day for things other people did wrong.
The crying started before I left work and was even worse when my sister called me to apologize. I apologized too. we had a nice talk and were laughing by the end of the call. We were never all that close but I have a new found respect and love for my sis after all that. None of my freinds would would have called me a baby one minute and console me the next.
Oh, and no more crying since so my advice is find someone you can have a good fight with and still be friends afterwards just to get all your frustrations out. I feel so much better now.