Just like everyone else here I have the same problem. I'm getting married next June and I'm sick of the comments people don't think about before they say and it seems like all of our friends are getting married before us. It's hard
Well we go the same thing. We got engaged in late December 2009 and the wedding is in August 2011 (our 5 year anniversary) We don't have any money so we are saving right now. So by Dec 2010 we would have some money to start renting and purchasing items for our home. We have no choice brcause there is no one to help us and we have to start some where. So I suggest that you should not worry about any one as they are not willing to help with financing alright.