My fiance and I are having a very small ceremony, immediate family only, and we aren't having any bridesmaids, or flower girl, etc. His sister offered to throw me a bridal shower/bachelorette party. The only problem is she isn't planning anything! And she made the offer a month ago. We are getting married in May, and I gave her 2 dates in April that work for me, but she won't even pick one of those dates. I want my fiance to have his bachelor party the same night, so her dragging her feet is holding up his party too. I feel like she just doesn't want to do it anymore. Do I confront her, and if I do, what do I say? Or do I keep my mouth shut and just maybe not have a party? Please advise!
BFP #1: 12/5/11, M/C 12/19/11
BFP #2: 5/22/12 Due 2/1/13 Baby girl born 2/2/13