So I think I asked some general questions about this before but now it seems its a go so now I have more specific questions. We have a very small wedding party and I don't know if you guys remember but my sorors contacted me and wanted to do like a bridal brunch since I'm not having a shower. So they are picking the place and all of that which was A-OK with me. My question is should I chip in on the bill or maybe for some of it and also what would you do for gifts/favors or that sort of thing (its next weekend so I really wouldn't have time to order something from Etsy or anything like that). I'm just trying to handle it in the right way and because they wont be at the wedding, I for sure want to do what is right as far as the brunch is concerned.