Now what? Picking my one bridesmaid and one maid of honor was hard and caused some drama with other friends. Because of the drama, I opted for a very small, family only bridal party. All my close friends knew who my bridal party was and now that she is leaving the country to travel, how do I approach/choose and new bridesmaid, (my sister will get upgraded to maid of honor). I feel awkward... "So hey, ____ is leaving the country, you're my runner up! Congrats?"