My fiancee and I got engaged on March 10 and could not be happier. We are having so much fun planning and picking our wedding party. However, I have a long time friend whom invited herself to be a bridesmaid. We've been very good friends for about seven years, however, I did not want to ask her to be in my wedding. When she confirmed herself as my bridesmaid I was awestruck and speechless. I feel like I cannot turn it around and tell her she is not my bridesmaid. We are good friends, but there have been tiffs in the past and would rather have her as a guest than a bridesmaid. Any advice? My fiancee has already set his number of groomsmen, and I don't have anyone else to ask to be bridesmaid - so I feel like I am stuck.