Lately I have been racking my brain to come up with who I would like as BMs. I have never had a lot of female friends. My BM consideration were my sister (She lives in WA and I am in CA) and a friend that I have made through my Fiance (I haven't known her that long, and we don't really hang out all that often) My Fiance has 2 Groomsmen (why I felt I have to have to BM). I thought that since I wasn't really close with either of them that I would just do the planning for any showers/party's (I have female friends just not very super close ones)
I have been reading some of the post's and it seems a lot of people's idea is that I should have no part in planning the showers. I don't think it's right to ask someone to plane one for me. Any ideas or advice?