My future Mother in law has been driving me up the wall. We are having a more informal wedding and have tried to convey that to her but she went out and bough a RED satin ball gown for the wedding. No one is wearing satin. The bridesmaids are in silk taffeta as is my mother. Red was my accent color of the day. I had picked out an all red bouquet and red accents. She bought the dress without telling anyone which made me furious and now she is arguing about how she wants to have her hair done. I had wanted to be the only one with an up-do but she is being insistent on putting her hair up as well. When we tell her we tell her we don't think that she'll fit in she gets all offended.
She invited double the amount of people we wanted her to and is pouting about the fact that her brothers are not invited to the rehearsal dinner. For budget reasons we are keeping the rehearsal dinner to only the immediate bridal party.
How can I not get angry about her and not take it out on my fiance. I feel like she is ruining my wedding because she wishes it were one of her daughters...