I was online at paperdivas.com i love the invite on there and they are not too expensive but thye want to charge $.50 and envelope to print a return address on the envelopes as well as the envelopes that are to be returned with the response cards! that will be an extra $100 or so! I was thinking i could purchase a rubber stamp and do them myself, but what should the stamp say. We are not married yet so is it ok to get a monogram stamp with my FI last name? or do i have one made with both of our first and last names on it?