Yes, you did read that correctly.
She called me yesterday to let me know that she had a bought a dress for the wedding. Great, congrats! Now she's looking at it and wondering if it's appropriate and no matter how much I tell her yes, she thinks I need to double check with "your online friends at that wedding site - they have such good ideas!" So, here I am.
She bough a cute dress that is black on the bottom and a champagne color top with black embroidery. It also has a jacket that is the champagne color with the black embroidery. The dress comes to just above her knee. She wants to know if the dress is inappropriate because: a) it comes above her knees [buut only slightly] and is shorter than the bridesmaids' dresses, and b) it has the same color as my dress in it.
For the record, I think the pictures she has sent me are pretty and if she feels comfortable in it and likes the way she looks, I think she should wear it. Yes, the champagne color is the color of my dress, but a) you can barely tell they are the same color and b) it's not the whole dress, so really, who cares?
So, ladies, please tell her she isn't breaking any unknown etiquette about how long her dress should be or whether or not the world is going to end because she bought her dress before my mom bought hers and before I had "approved" it.