still not engaged just yet.. Everything is all planned out though..... but i make a mistake and got really excited when i found out that hes planning on asking me.. so i accidently brought it up to two friends and they think that when i do get engaged they will be my maid of honor. Things have changed. How do I let them know that I've picked someone else. And please if your just going to call me stupid. Dont waste your time I know I made a mistake thank you. I just want some real advice on how to let my girls know.