FI and I discussed that we are going to have a modest wedding within the next few months. We are both from families where the parents had us/our "full"sibs, and all remarried and had more kids with our assorted step-parents. The net result is that between us we have over a dozen siblings. (We don't like or use labels like "half").
Since it's a short turnaround, since some of our family members have been impacted badly by the recession, since over a dozen attendants seems nuts for a smaller wedding, and since we don't want to pick and choose amongst sibs... We're probably not going to have attendants.
Can you ladies please suggest another way to honor our siblings? Soothe the hurt feelings/dissapointment (as some of our younger sisters will be upset at not being BMs)?