Hi everyone, just a quick question.....I am not planning to give my BMs jewelry as their gifts, therefore, when should I tell them that they can pick their own/wear their own jewelry on my wedding day? I want them to wear gold colored jewelry, other than that, they can choose...I won't see everyone all at once until my shower and/or bachelorette party and I have no idea when those will be...my MOH isn't telling me anything....I'd hate for everyone to come to the rehearsal dinner expecting jewelry as their gift, and then have no jewelry to wear....any advice would be great....thanks