Ok so i'll take responses as they come but to me I don't see a huge deal of how to word the names of the parents (i.e mother and father or father and mother) so i did my rough draft of my invite how i wanted it to look....my parents are divorced, FI's are not and my mom is the one primarly paying for the wedding so i put her name full name first and than my dads full name (not together seperated by an and) then i put along with Mom and Dad Winter....i asked FMIL if she wanted to see it (not give input i wasn't asking permission jsut doing it to be nice) and now she is flipping out and telling me i have to change it...her and FFIL both told me I had to put their names in it teh otehr day (i was just going to put Us along with our parents) and they weren't ok with it. My thinking is if they want to have input shouldn't they help pay for it? sorry maybe i'm completely in the wrong but who cares and who remembers whose name is first