Both my sister (MOH) and my FI's aunt and cousin have offered to host showers for me. I don't really know who to invite to each one...Should I have separate lists for each?? Overlapping?? I don't want people to think I am gift grabby or anything or if they came to both that I think they need to get me another gift or anything. I figure BP gets invited to all of them plus immediate family, and then the rest of the list I could keep to the family that is hosting plus any local friends that may want to come? Thoughts? Suggestions?? Thanks so much in advance!