My Mother and i were discussing her dress for my wedding this evening, and it has turned into a full out brawl! I was picture her wearing something knee length or a little longer and slightly understated. She how ever has this imagine in her head of being the young mother of the bride (she'll be turning 40 a few months after our wedding actually) and has been sending me links ot photos of dresses that look like something that belongs at either a cheap cocktail bar (short, low cut and sparkly) or that should be on the red carpet at the Oscars! (long, covered in sequence with dramatic cuts and ruffles and such) . Does anyone see any compromise here or should i just pick my battles an dlet t