I feel I am not- but I think I need an outsiders opinion. I'll try to keep it brief.... About 4 years ago, my mother had stole some money from my grandparents. She screwed up big time, but they forgave her. Her sister on the other hand, thought my mother was the worst person in the world. After some time had passed, grandparents forgave her and my mom had been caring for them. Gpa passed away in Feb 2010 and my mom cared for my grandmother. in august of that year, my aunts decided to put gma in a home and kicked my mom out. The aunt who thought my mom was terrible, treats me and my sister like outcasts because we stick with our mom. She does talk to my brother though. She gossips around town, I'm from a small town, about what my mom did and how she ruined my grandparents lives. Fast forward to now- I decided that I wanted my mom to be able to enjoy my wedding and not feel like she's been looked down upon, so I decided not to invite this aunt or her family. I haven't talked to her in over a year. Her daughter sent me a message on facebook on how she was hurt i didn't invite her mom and she was tired of seeing her mom struggle over what a screw up her sister is and now not being invited to the wedding. How her family has "been there" for all of us through this whole thing. She has NOT said one word to me in over a year. She deleted me on facebook, which i thought was childish, but i didn't care. She gossips about my family and my sister to people in town. Am I wrong for wanting my wedding to be drama free? Am I wrong for not inviting this aunt? Honesty, I don't mind if you think I am. Thanks for listening to me vent.
