Just wanted to say hi. I occasionally lurk here. I'm not engaged yet, but my bf and i have had the serious talk about marriage. I would being lying if i said i havent given my wedding any thought, but im definitely not planning it without a ring.
i seem to be getting pressure from married friends and neighbors to get hurry up and get married. They like my bf so much, they dont see why we arent just getting on with it, but it hasnt even been a year. i'm happy to enjoy our time togethe as bf/gf. i know our time will come, so i'm not too worried. i poke around these boards sometimes just seeing whats out there in the wedding world. honestly, the more i read about some of these horror stories on the other boards, the less of a wedding i want! :-) we'll see though.