ok...so here is my issue...my mom and i have never really gotten along all that much, dont get me wrong, she's excited for the wedding planning process, dress shopping...etc - but she's never been the kind of mom that i can go to for anything and everything - i've never felt like i can please her and she's always nitpicking about everything - but on the other hand she's my mom, so as much as she drives me nuts, i want her to be involved in everything.
I also want my MOH (my best friend) involved in alot of planning too - she is more organized than I and knows my taste and what is "me" However, MOH is very straightforward, and does not like my mother (understandable due to what MOM has put me through in the past), therefore will not be fake towards my mom
how can I involve them both in things without my moms toes being stepped on, but also having MOH there to back me up and/or help me make decisions if i get stuck? I'm afraid it's going to end bad