a few of my soon-to-be-family members mistook our clearly stated engagement party invites for bridal shower invites. how is totally beyond me, but nevertheless they bought us very expensive (think kitchenaide stand mixer expensive) for our party. now i feel like when they get the shower invites in a few months, they'll feel silly or even angry. should i address it before that time? or just let it slide? and obviously i DO NOT expect any more gifts from the folks, but how do i tell them that without making them feel bad about the snafu?