I basically am planning everything while he is deployed. He's due home in October, but I feel as if I will already have everything set byt he time he's home. I feel sort of selfish because I'm choosing the DJ, the venue, the flowers. He's given me his blessing to do all that sorts of stuff - but I promised him I'd wait to order the invitations and pick the foods. However, being that our wedding is only four short months away - I ended up having to order the invitations myself and pick half of the food... e-mail him the menu... wait a few days... and then put his half on the response card. He doesn't mind it one bit, he says it's okay - but I'm stressing out that I'm going to choose something he hates and he'll be upset with me! Ahh... the stress of military life