I've never been a fan of etiquette. I know it's there to make others more comfortable but I am usually not bothered when people do things that do not follow etiquette: I don't give a s*it if you put your elbows on the table, don't say excuse me when you burp or eat with the wrong fork, etc.
So, what wedding etiiquette irritates you? Regardless of whether you're going to follow it or not, what irritates you?
There is plenty of wedding etiquette that I will follow because othe people say I have to but it definitely irritates me.
The number one thing that irritates me is not being able to list your registry anywhere. If I'm invited to a wedding, I'd like to ask that all brides and grooms just put the damn registry info in the damn invite. I don't want to be bothered to call you and ask or have to go look it up. I'm going to buy you a gift off of your registry anyway and it's there for my convenience so why do i have to go hunting for it? This is the stupidest rule ever.
2. Not asking for cash. Also stupid. I think you should be able to put that you need a down payment for a house, etc, on your registry if you fucking want to. I mean really.... do you really need a blender or fine china more than a house? I think people should give gifts that are needed and wanted not gifts for the sake of etiquette. I don't really care about the rules here. If someone told me they needed money for a honeymoon or a down payment really badly then I'd just give em cash. I mean, the point of a gift is to make the person happy.
3. The way you have to list names on an invite. I really dislike being called mrs. Man's first name, man's last name. I didn't take on his first name too. I'd like to invite people as first and first last name. women have first names and identities other than being a wife.