I'm having some anxiety over some potential BM dress drama. They're all wearing different dresses from the same designer in the same color. My MOH could not find a dress she liked at the salon we got all the other dresses at so she went to a major chain, which I have no problem with, on her own to look. Well, she found one she loves. I thought we had an understanding that we would get together to look at the dress before it was purchased. Two days before I was supposed to look at the dress, she bought it and a shrug to go with it! When she told me, I was like "Oh great!" But I was really thinking, "What the &^%$!!!!!" I immediatly called the store. They do not do returns or exchanges. I am worried that the color is going to be so off that it looks totally out of place with the other girls. AGH! I don't know what to do and I still can't believe she bought a dress without me seeing it!