So we've decided to go the nontraditional route with our response cards... instead of having the "M____________" and have people fill in their names, to avoid them adding people that aren't invited, we are going to list the individual guests names on the response card.
So my question is, how do I address the Misses?
Would it be:
Mr. John Smith __ accepts __declines
Mrs. John Smith __accepts __declines
or
Mr. John Smith __ accepts __declines
Mrs. Jane Smith __ accepts __declines
or
John Smith __ accepts __declines
Jane Smith __accepts __declines
I know formally, she is Mrs. John Smith, but is it rude to call her Mrs. Jane Smith? I feel very informal calling them just "John Smith" and "Jane Smith" without the mr. and mrs.
Lastly, what if the Mr. is a doctor?
Dr. John Smith __accepts __declines
Mrs. John Smith?? __accepts __Declines
I've asked this on here before, but didn't get much of an answer, so I apologize if you've seen this boring rant before!
Thanks in advance!