I just wondered if anyone had any ideas for an alternative to the Unity candle. Ours will be different because my FI mother will not be at the wedding. She is not a people person and she doesn't leave their home very often. We already suspected she might not attend so we will be Recording it for her. Anyways, back to my question...I am wanting to have our Fathers do the "Unity candle" but I wanted to change it. They both like fishing and our wedding will be in november so I have been racking my brain for ideas. I was thinking of having a sand ceremony but instead of sand have lentils or peas because our fathers work at the same place where they process peas, lentils and garbanzos....kind of funny I guess. Thanks for any ideas!!