My fiance's older sister is mentally handicapped, and we want to have her as a part of our wedding. We are trying to overcome some challeges in order to make this happen because she is not able to wear the same outfit as my bridesmaids and will not be coming with us for group pics b/c of the noise on the bus, etc. So, I am totally fine giving her the title of "bridesmaid," but I think that may be a bit odd since she will be dressed differently than the other 8 girls. She (and their parents) would really like her to stand up with us during the ceremony, which is fine with me, but is there some other type of title that I can give her in the program so that she stands out in a good way and feels special? I realize that this is somewhat of a sensitive topic, so I want to emphasize that I have the best intentions possible in asking this question. Thanks for your help!