Okay you know sometimes when you just want to smack yourself about stressing over the stupidest little things??? Well that is me right now. So I always thought everyone did the 2 envelope thing for invitations. The invitation/response card/directions, etc go into an envelope (inner envelope) and then that goes into another bigger envelope (outer envelope). The outer envelope has the name and address, stamp, etc and the inner just has the names. I thought this was standard and remember some people in my family doing this as well as a recent friend. However when I went to 2 invitation people they both told me that they dont do this anymore. And one even said that the less expensive your invitation, you usually do 2 envelopes. I would think it would be the other way around- if your invitation is more expensive you would want to "protect" the invitation with double envelopes. The invitation lady that I like best said she can give me another envelope but its not one that will fit snug into the other- its usually 1/4 inch bigger but hers are 1/2 inch bigger. Do I stress over the extra 1/4 inch (because it like leaves some room on the ends) or do I just do the 1 envelope?