OK, so I have never posted on her before... so bear with me here.
I'm concerned about my FI's family. Many of the extended family members are very religious, judgmental, and even racist. I love his immediate family, it's Grandparents, Aunt, Uncles and Cousins that I'm worried about.
I know his grandmother hates me cause
1. I'm a single mom, who was never married to my daughters father
2. Don't attend their church (neither does my FI)
3. Hispanic (FI and all his family is white)
His extended family is very vocal about their opinion and I'm terrified about any confrontations that may occur before the wedding... or my nightmare AT the wedding! I'm not one to sit quietly when disrespected, but at the same time, I don't want to escalate anything. How do I deal with any comments that might be made, or how do I ensure that people won't ruin our special day?
Thanks for the help guys!!!