I need to vent and get some pent up frustration out, so this is long... sorry. :)Ok, so my wedding is in 6 months and all of my bridesmaids dresses came in just a couple weeks ago, right before the holidays. (They're plum, knee length with a bubble hem, and strapless... they're super cute!) So, I told all my bridesmaids that the dresses came in and I met up with one of them that I don't see all that often to give her the dress so she could hold onto it and get it fitted if she needs to when it's best for her. While we were talking, after I had given her the dress, she asked if I would mind if she wore it to her work's Christmas party. What is your opinion about that? She's be wearing it six months before my wedding, around no one else that I know, and said that she would get it cleaned if necessary. So that's no biggie. But I have a feeling she'd take a a ton of pictures with her bf and put them up on facebook for everyone to see, which would be annoying to me because then every mutual friend of ours would see my bridesmaid dresses way before the wedding, which would be a bummer to me. I know that's not a huge deal, but it bothers me and I would rather her not wear the dress before the wedding. What do you think? Is this unreasonable of me? The bridesmaids paid for them out of their own pocket ($122-ish), so it's not like I helped pay for them. But still, I want it to be more special than that... you know? Am I being a bridezilla? I really don't want to be but I guess I can't help how I feel. It probably doesn't help that this girl practically fought my sister for the MOH position and was pissed when I didn't choose her saying, "I'm just bummed because this was my only opportunity to be a MOH." (notice that was all about her...). She actually talked to my sister, other bmaids, and others not even involved in the wedding about how it should've been her instead of my sister. She also proceeds to talk about her "upcoming" wedding any time I bring up mine, like she's trying to one-up me... She's not even engaged and she's talking about setting a date near, but always before, mine. The date/season has changed about 4 times since I got engaged and now she's planning on doiing a destination wedding in Mexico a month or two before me (which is in the middle of my last semester of school while I'm student teaching, and supposed to have taken over the class at that time. You're not exactly given vacation time as a student teacher.) She is expecting me to be the MOH. She knows I'm broke and that it'd cost a few hundred to fly to Mexico but acted like she expects me there. I'd like to do it, but I just can't afford it. I'd have to forgo my own honeymoon to go to her destination wedding, and I don't think that's fair... is that wrong of me to feel that way? It also doesn't help that she never asks me about any of my wedding plans. If she doesn't talk about her own wedding or relationship any time I try to tell her something about my plans, she just says, "Oh, cool." Which is annoying because of how badly she wanted to be MOH. The only thing she did was come with me to go wedding dress shopping, where she forced herself into the dressing room to help me, making my sister, the MOH, just sit and watch, as well as the bridal consultant... she pushed out the bridal consultant. As I was getting into a dress, she said, "So I think we'll be getting married in April." I just feel like she doesn't care and this wearing the bridesmaid dress before the wedding thing just adds to my irritation. She claims to be my best friend when she really just doesn't act like it, and it hurts that she doesn't care (or at least acts like she doesn't). It's very upsetting. She really was my best friend at one point, so I'm just not sure what to do with that situation in general.Ugh, sorry that was so long. Anyway... opinions and suggestions would be appreciated. Mostly on the wearing the bmaid dress before the wedding part, but suggestions on how to deal with this girl would be nice too. Thanks!!!