Okay, so my fiance has a pretty big family (5 brothers and sisters, all who have kids besides the youngest, Nick).
For the wedding party, originally I was thinking my two best friends and my other one (maybe 2) close friends. But, one of my fiance's nieces loves me and I would like to give her a part, she will be 10 I believe when we get married. Which I think might be too old for a flower girl, and she has a younger sister who will be 3 on our wedding. I thought maybe she could be a junior bridesmaid. But, my fiance has another niece a few years older and I thought it could hurt some feelings if I don't ask her too. We are going to have a smaller wedding, 80-90 people, and if I end up with 4 bridesmaids and 2 junior bridesmaids maybe that would be too much?
As for my fiances groomsmen, he is not sure who is he going to have. But we've talked about maybe his brothers (3 of them) with one of his friends then maybe my younger brother (who will be 16).