Just checking in for thoughts on this. I have a bridesmaid who called and said, 'i'm bringing a date.' Her invite did say Miss 'Smith'- a guest option was not given to her. Now, she is traveling across the country to the wedding. I have not met her current flame. Truth be told, I'd rather have her to myself as she is the type who acts different around men. I was hoping for good bonding with my gals. Add all that onto the fact that our venue is going to be tight as it is. What to do?