This may sound odd, but my fiance really wants a wedding ceremony. I personally think it's a waste of time and money, no offense to anyone here, and would rather just go to court and fill out the paper work. I don't care much for a honeymoon either. I'll be working on my Masters degree or PhD by then, and I don't want to take the time off for the whole wedding theatrics; purchasing a house and paying back our student loans seems more important. The problem is that I've been humoring him by planning the wedding out; found a venue, the dress, flowers, centerpieces.... I just don't think I can handle that kind of stress and be the center of attention. I get agoraphobic in these kinds of situations I have run out of parties before. What can I do? I don't want to hurt his feelings. Notes 1. We've discussed this issue and he told me to just shut up and do it 2. I would need to be in benzotropines for the day and if you don't know what that's like your day goes by in slow motion... It's awful. 3. I am not a US citizen. The visas alone would cost a couple of grand. 4. My family dislikes my fiance, and are not only in two separate continents, but refuse to speak to one another. IF YOU CAN'T GIVE ADVICE THEN DON'T BOTHER RESPONDING TO THIS POST.
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