I need advice which I can’t find anywhere on the internet and it involves my bridesmaids (best friends) so I can’t go to advice from them!
My wedding is in a city where half my bridal party lives, and half will be coming in from out of town. I’m having a very intimate, fun, relaxed wedding (my bridesmaid dresses were $50!)! All of my bridesmaids (except one very loyal one) has notified me they will not be staying at the hotel at all, but instead will be staying 5 miles away all crashing at a friends place. I’m hurt and disappointed because I thought the point of being a bridesmaid is to be available to help, and be around for support. I also know them all staying together (remotely) will just be a recipe for trouble... and I feel left out! Am I being out of line to be disappointed they’re not getting a room at least night? I figured they would share rooms in which it would only be $100pp. Also, one of the bridesmaids (who says I’m being very out of line) is getting married weeks before me in which I have to stay at a hotel for three nights!
Advice would be appreciated!