long story short this will be my second wedding ( got married over 12yrs ago when i was 19).... My dad (who didn't raise me) "gave me away" at my 1st wedding... which i didn't have control over that decision. This is MY WEDDING - I'm getting to have all of my ideas heard and done because my fiance and I are paying for it all... My older brother insisted on being my "Escort" because I'm very clumsy and its on the beach.So there is no who gives the woman question in the ceremony.. Now my Aunt (dads sis) has taken upon herself to tell my dad that my brother is "Giving me Away" -- needless to say this has hurt my dad feelings... I don't want my dad to walk me- since we've already did that 12yrs ago. My big brother and I are really close.. now my Aunt(who raised me ) is making a big deal out of this saying that if my dad isn't gonna do it then i should walk alone. My brother has already got his flight,tux and hotel... I'M NOT EVEN COUNTING ON MY DAD TO MAKE THE TRIP BECAUSE ITS COSTLY...
I don't wanna hurt anyone's feelings especially my brother.... { i don't even want a dad dance or mother son dance...} ? HOW DO I JUST LET MY DAD DOWN EASY - CAUSE I REALLY DON'T WANT HIM TO DO IT...