I was supsot to be married on dec 18 of 2010 however we had to push the wedding to march. We changed everything even having it out of town now. I have one bridemaid that doesnt do anything. She hasnt helped my maid of honor or my other bridesmaids with planning my bridal tea or my partys. The only reason I asked her to be in the wedding is because her boyfriend is my fiances best man. Which was mad we had to change the wedding to his birthday weekend and his words were "I hope you know that is my birthday weekend and you will be putting me out a lot of money because i wont be able to work saturday night". Its my wedding if he thinks his birthday is more important than being there for his best friend what is the point in either of them coming. Can I give her the money back for the dress and tell her since for the past 6 months she wouldnt get with anybody else in the bridal party she shouldnt be in the wedding? She is way to much drama an way to stressful for me to deal with when I have to repeat myself to her time after time.