I'm new to this board, but have read a lot of posts that have helped me in my new life style change. The only problem I am having lately is that my FI doesn't seem to care that I'm trying to lose weight for the wedding. I tried wedding dresses on this week, and I will admit, they looked good, but seeing me in them made me realize that I am a fluffy marshmellow, and will look like it walking down the aisle next year. How can I tell him that doing this lifestlye change will benefit him as well? The day after I started he bought Oreo's for me, saying he forgot that I was trying to lose weight. I just feel like he doesn't understand what I am going through.
Another thing I was wondering about was what are some good back toning exercises. The dress I really love is a corset back so it's pulling all my back fat into back cleavage, which isn't the most appealing. I am new to weights so I am trying to figure out the best exercises for that area. Any help would be nice. Thank you.