A good friend of mine recently got engaged and set her wedding date for summer 2011. I'm in her WP. My own wedding is now only a few months away and her destination bachelorette trip was just set for a week/end that would have me returning home 10 days before I leave for my own wedding (which is a destination wedding).
Would you make the trip when your own wedding is so close? Or would that just be setting myself up to be incredibly stressed out when I return home? I hate to miss out on her trip but you only get married once, and if I come back and am exhausted and stressed for mine, I'll regret having gone. Helpful advice please!