So I'll try and keep it short..
Our wedding is in 8 weeks and most of my FI's groomsmen are on the other side of the state and will need to travel (although only a few hours) for the wedding. He orginally had 5 GMs but one had to drop out because of a medical issue. So now he's thinking of asking one of his other friends to fill in. But he hasn't asked him yet. And the day is fast approaching. He also has not communicated to the other GMs that the rehersal is the Thursday before the wedding so they need to be prepared to come over here two days before the wedding, which is on that Saturday. He also hasnt told them when they need to get fitted for their tuxes (although thats not until 2/12 and he did ask for all of their input on price before choosing tuxes, so that was good). And finally, he hasn't tried to get the guys together to figure out where they will be staying the night before the wedding.
So I guess my question is: Should I be worrying about all this or am I jumping the gun because its too soon and "boys will be boys"? And also, should I take over and talk to the GMs myself if he doesnt soon or should I just leave it up to him and if he doesnt get it done then oh well he won't have any GMs? I'm generally a control freak (as you might be able to tell lol) but I don't want to nag him to death about this. Thanks for your advice!